Peucritond is crying

Okay, Tuesday is my trivia day so I don't play FFXI. However, i do log in to check on plants and such for maybe an hour or so. Lo behold, i see my static pld pting in b. tree and at level 55. Now I know he wanted 55 to get Holy and he died a couple of times. And will probably die more than the rest of tthe pt, so I wasn't too upset. I get back from trivia and log in and see the rdm is at 55 now as well. I send congrats to her and she replies back "how come you weren't on today" and i told her i don't play on tuesday i've said so many of time. But, it saddens me that my static went on a did exp pt when they could have been coffer hunting or leveling subs or other things.